By constantly putting myself out there, challenging myself at work, and trying out new activities I have learned a few things about failure and how to handle it with a more constructive and kind approach.
First of all, failure is feedback showing what didn’t work and how to tweak it…
Putting labels on others based on quick glimpses is something that we all do, more or less, especially on social media. Because it allows us to quickly make sense of others.
However, when you put a label on people, it limits how you view them. It also limits your curiosity…
Everywhere we can read about transformational journeys. People share “how it started” and “how it ended” to show the trajectory of their personal growth journeys.
But why is it so little written about the “in-between” phase?
About the fact that most of people’s lives in trying to achieve their own…
Everyone has traits that ruin things for them in life.
Some people believe that these traits are the inherent part of their personality. Which is fair enough.
The others are convinced that their character is under the influence of their star sign. That is completely understandable too because it makes talking about…
Throughout the week let’s make sure we:
— Don’t ignore people’s emotions.
Sometimes we choose ignorance for a while because the truth is too uncomfortable. But by ignoring the truth we are hurting others who are affected by our decisions.
— Check in on someone.
Send a message/call and just let them know you appreciate them.
And a gentle reminder: you’re enough just the way you are.
When we look back at the past we often say that what we did was wrong and that we should have done it differently.
But the older I get the more I realize there is no “right” decision. And this realization is liberating and so relieving!
There is just the decision we made based on the knowledge we had. But that doesn’t mean we were “wrong”.
We have more knowledge now looking back.
So free yourself from the idea that it was the wrong decision. It’s so exhausting and painful. Think about the knowledge you have at the time!
Had a coffee with a designer friend today talking about goal-setting this year. And I realized that it’s the first year when it doesn’t feel right to set up any goals or plans.
Does it ring the bell with you too?
The only one thing I’m actually looking to setting…
Something I have noticed in life and has especially been magnified through social media is the difference between winners and losers.
Future winners in life:
☑They never talk negatively of others. They see people doing better than them and they don’t think “I’m going to write a jealous comment”. They simply don’t…