Stop analyzing other people
I can’t believe this world is all about trying to “read” people.
Everyone is over-analyzing everyone. Nobody asks any questions anymore.
It bothers me when people try to constantly “read” other people and tell them who they are and what they need. When people “diagnose” their parents/ex-partners/anyone else they dislike as having a mental illness.
Most people who are rude to us are not narcissists.
Most people who are introverted are not autistic.
And this analysis and over-intellectualization are just in service of anxiety.
So instead of trying to interpret, analyze, or decode someone’s words or behavior ask! That is the only way to understand others! And if they don’t want to share their inner world with you. Leave them be. Go on with your life. Meet other people who are capable of communicating.
Let’s leave analyzing others to the experts. The psychiatric industry needs your dollar. Stay in your lane and let the experts do what they do.