Things that define future winners in life

Something I have noticed in life and has especially been magnified through social media is the difference between winners and losers.
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Future winners in life:
☑They never talk negatively of others. They see people doing better than them and they don’t think “I’m going to write a jealous comment”. They simply don’t need to. Instead, they see someone do well and get inspired.
☑They are able to realize when they are wrong, excuse for it, and learn from it.
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Losers in life:
☑They fear other people’s success. They want to bring those doing better than them down in order to try and look better.
☑They live a whole life always acting as if it is others’ fault when things go wrong will never grow, change, and become better.
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It’s very normal to feel down or depressed and see people doing better than you in life. 24/7 social media reminds me other people are more successful, smarter, etc. But I think to myself that’s a good thing. If someone else can do it, then I can! I’m motivated by others’ success.
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Moral of the story:
☑Hating is a reflection that you have given up and only way you can get ahead is to tear others down.
☑Feelings of satisfaction when others struggle, or feelings of bitterness when others win, is a tremendous sign that major self-work is needed.
☑When looking for people to surround yourself with always look for people who are able to admit when they behave poorly, and who do something about it.
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Be inspired by other people’s success.
Be motivated seeing others doing well and realize you can do it as well. Tearing others down is not a sign of winning or strength.
Be nice. Nice people don’t finish last. They win in the end :)